When we love someone, we believe that they mean something – and that they have a future. But life often doesn't follow the rules we imagine.
partnership relations
How many times have you loved someone who didn't know how to love you back? How many times have you tried, proven, waited, and hoped? And when was the last time you looked at yourself and asked yourself: why am I doing this? Why am I fighting for someone who doesn't know how to love me?
You taught me more than I ever expected. It was from your actions – not your words – that I built the world I now carry with me. Without explanation, without instructions. Just with who you were.
You tire yourself out slowly. Not in one step, but in thousands of small ones. When you give in a little more every day. To yourself. When you push boundaries that you promised yourself you would never do. When you keep quiet to avoid conflict. When you smile even though you feel a tear in your throat.
Do you believe that perfect relationships should always be free of arguments? Do you think that true love means that you never have to express your feelings? Do you believe that you have to endure pain to prove your commitment?
Why persist where you are unhappy? What are you really afraid of – loneliness, change, the unknown? Have you convinced yourself that it would be better if you just held on a little longer? How many of your dreams, goals, and joy have you sacrificed in order to maintain something that has long since lost its meaning?
How long are you going to wait for things to miraculously improve? When will you stop believing in empty promises and start trusting what is clear before your eyes? Are you ready to live in a relationship where loyalty is not a given, but always a question?
Why are you still waiting for your man to make up his mind? Why do you still believe he will change? How many times do you have to prove to yourself that you deserve more than he is willing to give you?
Why are we always looking for the right time for love? What if there is no such time? And if someone is really right for you – then why should you wait?
Are you struggling around someone who doesn't give you the same energy back? Are you in a relationship where you give everything and the other person is quiet? Ask yourself: is it really worth continuing something that drains you?
Is it still love or just a habit? When do you become a prisoner of your own illusions? Why is it so hard to leave, even though you know you should? But all the dinners without a look, all the hugs without the warmth and silence where there should be connection, tell their own story.
Is it really worth staying in a relationship that no longer brings happiness? Is a breakup really a failure or can it be an opportunity for a complete rebirth?